27.Travel Tips Social and Cultural Customs Table Manners
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Travel Tips
Social and Cultural Customs
Table Manners
Chinese people are usually gracious hosts
 and generally informal, but there are a few things that westerners 
should know about Chinese table manners to avoid social mishaps.
Wait for your host to indicate the 
seating order at table. When food arrives at the table wait for the host
 to motion towards the food or serve the main guest before helping 
yourself. Do not tap your chopsticks on your bowl as this is considered 
rude and impatient and is associated with beggars trying to attract 
attention. Avoid sticking your 
        
             Woman eating a bowl of rice.
        
        chopsticks upright in your rice bowl as this evokes the sticks 
of incense placed next to graves. It is the norm to pick up your rice 
bowl and shovel rice into your mouth with your chopsticks. When helping 
yourself to items from a common dish take the piece of food closest to 
you. Do not fill your bowl completely, but take one or two items at a 
time. It is polite to try a little bit of everything. When serving tea, 
make sure to have the teapot’s spout pointing towards an empty place or 
yourself, as to point it towards anyone is considered rude. After a 
meal, it is acceptable to use a toothpick at the table, but you should 
cover your mouth with your hand while doing so.
            Woman eating a bowl of rice.
        
        chopsticks upright in your rice bowl as this evokes the sticks 
of incense placed next to graves. It is the norm to pick up your rice 
bowl and shovel rice into your mouth with your chopsticks. When helping 
yourself to items from a common dish take the piece of food closest to 
you. Do not fill your bowl completely, but take one or two items at a 
time. It is polite to try a little bit of everything. When serving tea, 
make sure to have the teapot’s spout pointing towards an empty place or 
yourself, as to point it towards anyone is considered rude. After a 
meal, it is acceptable to use a toothpick at the table, but you should 
cover your mouth with your hand while doing so.
Tipping
In China tipping is not part of the 
culture – it is a society where everything is fiercely negotiated and 
haggling is the norm. In restaurants, servers may be embarrassed by the 
offer of a tip and refuse or have been forbidden to take it. However, in
 a large city like Beijing which sees many foreigners, some guides, 
drivers and bellboys have become familiar with the western custom of 
tipping and expect travelers to tip them. Some restaurants will now add a
 service charge to the bill.
Social Etiquette
People greet each other by bowing or 
nodding in China. Wait for the other person to offer their hand in a 
handshake. When meeting new people, formal introductions are the norm. 
When addressing people use their title and surname. Wait for them to 
suggest that you call them by their first name. Acknowledge the oldest 
person first.
In the US we frequently pat a friend on 
the shoulder or hug. In China you should avoid physical contact and 
especially avoid touching a woman in public. Keep your gestures small 
and avoid pointing at anyone.
If you are invited to a Chinese person’s 
home it is customary to bring a gift. Depending on the occasion and your
 relationship with your host, you could take chocolates, cookies, fruit 
(except pears, because the word in Mandarin sounds like “leaving”) or 
alcohol. Items associated with death include clocks, straw sandals and 
the color white, so these do not make good gifts. Punctuality is 
considered important, so try to arrive on time or slightly early.
When drinking people say “ganbei” (dry 
cup) and it is customary to tilt your glass after drinking to show the 
other guests that you have taken a drink.
            (with two hands).
Give and accept business cards with both 
hands. It is usual for Chinese people to take time making business 
decisions, so it is considered crass to show your impatience during this
 process. Do not discuss business over a meal. If you invite people for a
 meal, you need to make sure that their drivers are also fed.
When asking someone out on a date it is the norm to do so in private to avoid embarrassment.
Clothing Etiquette
In most settings in China people are 
expected to dress relatively soberly. (During the 2008 Olympics Beijing 
residents were reminded to wear no more than three colors together.) 
Women dressed in revealing clothes or with a lot of bare skin draw 
negative attention. When in a business setting avoid jeans and casual 
clothing. Women should dress conservatively. Large urban centers like 
Beijing are more western in their clothing styles than smaller rural 
areas.
Chinese Toilets
It can be a big surprise when you first 
walk into a Chinese bathroom and see a row of squat toilets. Public 
toilets often are a hole in the ground with no partitions between holes.
 There is usually a fee for using the public toilets and be sure to 
carry your own toilet paper. You cannot put toilet paper in squat 
toilets, there is usually a garbage can nearby. 
There are some western style toilets in hotels and restaurants 
(especially places like McDonalds).
Social Taboos
Avoid touching people. Chinese people do not enjoy being touched by strangers.
Public displays of affection are frowned on. Sex is not usually discussed in public.
During the Spring Festival, at Chinese 
New Year, and especially on the first day of the first lunar month, 
there are a number of taboos. It is considered inauspicious to break 
anything, or exhibit any negative behavior. People avoid using any sharp
 tools, such as scissors or knives to avoid cutting their luck. 
Similarly no-one sweeps their home on the first day so as to not sweep 
away good fortune.
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